Does this sound familiar? I am getting dates with wonderful, sexy women, and I think things are going well, and then she fails to call me back or doesn’t want to go out again. What am I doing wrong? How can I find a date and do the things that will make her want to stick around?
Here are some ideas to avoid some of the most common mistakes guys make.
Dating tip #1: Avoid traditional dates and all that pressure that comes with the traditional date. There’s the dinner, movie, and wondering if she likes you. Maybe you are going for drinks and trying to see if she’s into you. Consider trying different kinds of activities with your potential partner. Even a coffee date can be fun and relaxed. You also spend less money. Keep your mind open for other non-traditional activities like bowling, skating, walks in the park, going to the zoo or nature center. Women often love a botanical garden.
Dating tip #2: Show your interest in what your date has to say. Don’t fill the entire evening talking about yourself. Ask her about her interests, her favorite activities, her experiences, her opinions. A sexy woman will be surprised and intrigued by a man who wants to listen and is interested in what she has to say. She will want to know more about you and spend more time with you.
Dating tip #3: Don’t be afraid to show your intelligence, your manners and your good sense. Even sexy women like a guy who can put his best foot forward. Open the car door (and all doors) for your lady, and be aware to help her on stairs or on uncertain terrain especially if she is wearing high heels. We say be aware, because some women may not like this help, but other women absolutely love it. If they look like they would appreciate you extending your hand to offer them secure assistance, by all means do it. You will score major points in the gentleman category.
Dating tip #4: Be genuine in you language. Don’t use pick up lines. Also, make sure you are not trying to play a role. Simply put, be yourself. You can be a unique, charming date on your own merits. You do not need to resort to this type of behavior.
Dating tip #5: Some sexy women may try to test you. Unless you are looking for someone to serve and pamper the rest of the days of your life, don’t fall into the habit of doing everything she wants. Some of her behavior may actually be a way for her to test and see if you’ll stand up to her. Women know that if you stand up to her, you will stand up for her when she needs you. Be playful and pleasant, but make sure you remain your own man. When you pass their tests, it drives sexy women wild with desire.
Dating tip #6: It’s OK to play the field when you are first starting to date some great sexy women. They will love the idea that other sexy women also find you attractive, and they will pursue you even more.